I had a friend tell me, “You are one of those people that can do big things”. That stuck with me. What does it mean to do “big things” and should I be doing them? Am I falling short of my potential? Is what I’m doing now big enough? At the same time, I’m wondering if I deserve to be where I am today. How’s that for a confusing, conflicting self esteem challenge? Life is not a race. Everyone’s circumstances, timing, and luck are different. I don’t regret anything, have what I need, and am happy. That’s a big thing in my book.